Raised to Walk in Newness of Life

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Every now and then, Jack sends me a text showing me a picture of something that happened this time last year or even five years ago…Today, I received this picture of him baptizing our firstborn, Selah Jordan. This picture evokes something in me I really am too overwhelmed to explain…it’s just pure joy and beauty. Baptism is one of the most joyful and beautiful things I have ever witnessed.

It seemed crazy to me that one of my first thoughts upon seeing this picture today was, “Wow, I never noticed how much this baptismal looks like a coffin.” Before I could think, “You are such a weirdo, Lyndsay”, the Holy Spirit affirmed it, saying, “YES! It should look like a coffin…As disturbing as it is to see your daughter in a coffin, she was once dead and has now been resurrected! Look at that face! She’s got a second life to start living now!”

This is what Jesus is all about. This is what He does, what He IS! He is the only One who can wash away and even make beauty out of our past and breathe new daily breath into our future.

And there was more…I thought about children who have passed away, or loved ones who knew Jesus who have left us. The moment their bodies were ready for the coffin, this look on Selah’s face as her Daddy raises her up out of that water, THAT was the look on their faces when their Abba pulls them from the grave into His arms! The resurrection is REAL, friends!!!!! One day, that will be us going down, only to be raised up again, and it’ll be sheer, unlimited joy and beauty.

Until He comes, we’ve been raised… to walk… in newness… of life.

Thank You, Jesus!

 

 

 

How to Stay Healthy Over the Holidays, Part Two

Continued from yesterday…

6) If you have holiday events that will change up your normal eating schedule or normal healthy foods, I have two thoughts to help. One, have your meal on a dessert plate-get whatever you want, but other than vegetables and fruit, make it fit on a dessert plate. Two, wear a watch and do not eat any sooner than 3 hours later! Your waistband, blood sugar, digestion, and eventually the scale will thank you!

7) Desserts: What other time of year does one have peanut butter balls and derby pie? So, I myself will have some even though for the rest of the year I am pretty much dessert-free. Two thoughts about this that help me not go overboard anymore: One, have a dessert plate with a small sample of your favorite things. Two, do not take it home with you, and if you have no choice about that, plan to only eat the leftovers when others are sitting down to enjoy them as well. (Read: Do not scurry up to the fridge alone when everyone else has gone to bed…I say this as if I have experience on this matter…which I will humbly confirm!!)

8) I really recommend 15 minutes of exercise a day, even and especially through the holidays! It helps the immune system, and just think, if you are eating an extra few hundred calories every few days because of the rich holiday foods AND skipping your normal exercise, it’s compounding to a serious calorie overload your body is not used to. Keep up the exercise, and possibly add in a 10 min walk outside around dinnertime each evening, and that will really help with the extra servings your body isn’t used to.

9) Pace yourself and don’t “eat your feelings”. We need to let this season be the gift that it is, NOT the busy dizzy mess it can become of setting unrealistic expectations on our calendar and ourselves, and trying to live up to the unrealistic expectations others tend to put on us. I will say this truth to you and me both: We don’t HAVE to do anything at all to show and receive love this Christmas. We are enough and so are the people around us. WE get to choose what Christmas is all about TO US. If you find yourself stressed, keep to the eating and resting guidelines, and take a moment to really think  about WHY you’re cooking, dressing up, driving, preparing your home, etc. It’s about relationships and having a chance to show love and gratitude, not about perfection and pride and things that can be bought. When we get to the bottom of why we feel overwhelmed or unhappy, it’s amazing how quickly the desire to stuff our faces disappears.

10) Don’t allow this month to overshadow or rearrange the most important part of the day: Your time alone with Jesus! He wants to steady you, bless you, sing over you! He wants to nourish you and hold you close so you can hear His heartbeat now more than ever. There are hurting people around us-He wants to give us a word to sustain the weary! We need Him, whether we notice it or not amidst the constant noise and bustle, and our awareness of His Presence will be our peace and joy. He IS the peace and joy people speak of at Christmas, to ignore coming close to Him during this time only sets us up for disappointment at the end of the day.

So, God bless you–each and every one–and may you enjoy this holiday to the fullest!

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How to Stay Healthy Over the Holidays! Part One…

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So I raise my glass and propose a toast to staying well and also not gaining weight over the Christmas Season! The actions we take to stay well AND the actions we take to not gain weight are one and the same, go figure! They simply go hand in hand.

There is no reason in the world why we have to bring in the New Year  feeling sick, miserable, and ready to take on insane exercise routines and diets. Let’s just SKIP ALL THAT this year! Here are some things I am going to stay conscious of…No rocket science here, but as I was thinking through my strategy I thought I would share it with you!

1) Drink more water than ever! I am trying to do a full 32 oz water bottle by lunch and another by supper.

2) Get some detox tea or echinacea tea and drink it hot several times a week. It wouldn’t be a bad idea to swap out your lunch most days this month with a homemade protein shake with flax seed, chia seeds, spinach, berries, and all the good stuff that helps keep you squeaky clean and well-nourished.

3) Take a daily 10-15 minute “nap”, eyes closed, no TV. Yoga wouldn’t be a bad idea either, I love it!

4) Have some Oscillicilium (Sorry, I have no idea how to spell this!), Cold Eeze zinc tablets (yes, I know they have disgusting artificial sweetener in them which I usually avoid like the plague), and Vitamin C powder packets on hand ON TOP of your regular whole food vitamins. It is truly amazing how these three things, or even just one of these, can shorten a cold. Also, I have learned with having bad allergies that it doesn’t matter whether your symptoms are from a cold or just allergies, you need relief! So, stock up on antihistamines so that when the icky drippy stuff starts happening, you can dry it up and keep from getting an infection. My favorite one is Chlor-Trimeton, it works wonders for me.

5) Get in bed before 11, with just a few exceptions you crazy party animals!

 

Exciting News!

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Just a quick little update…(Soon I hope to blog about the songs on Beloved and get the lyrics and chords up as well, but today, just a quick word!)

Beloved, the new worship duet EP by Joanna Black and myself, is now available for download on iTunes! Yippee! If you read this and have time, it would be amazing if you could write a little review on iTunes and/or CDBaby for this project. It would genuinely help us a lot!

And second bit of news…We were accepted onto Pandora! Praising the Lord for this, and I’m so thankful for the support of people who “liked” our music from the past so that this was possible. In about 3 months, Beloved songs will be available for listening on Pandora stations. If you haven’t made and cultivated a sweet Lyndsay Taylor channel, I hope you will!

Thanks so much, friends!

Thankful For This…

God is deeply working on my character.

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I told someone today I felt like clay, if clay had nerve endings.

How that clay must hurt if someone keeps pulling and smashing…otherwise known as molding…it!

Ouch.

That’s how I feel.

I feel completely UNDEAD. The nerve endings of this clay are tingling wildly! This sacrifice of my life on the altar has gotten all kinds of alive and opinionated and overdramatic. Sheesh.

So, really to no glory of my own because it isn’t directly by choice, I get to learn to die to self again. Each opportunity of things not going my way has been showing me that I have the chance, again and again, to lay down, to go low, to relinquish my demands, to die.

And this is what  I am thankful for this Thanksgiving. That the Lord never gives up on us. That He doesn’t care if we have to learn something over and over again in our lifetime. That He will send opportunities in our lives to refine us, to draw us closer to Him, to make us more like His Son…all of which are the very reason we’re alive! I forget! I don’t choose the paths that will bring these miracles about, but He does, and it is truly a gift to have these chances to be transformed and reduced, ah, reduced.

“Oh the ruins that I am are a gift You gave to me…”

Learning How To Eat…(just in time for the holidays, sorry!)

This week I was thinking of what I was thankful for, and I know this is going to sound weird, but I am really thankful that I have learned how to eat! I thought back to different seasons of my life and how miserable I was, exercising 40 minutes a day, eating what I thought was good for me, and yet hating how I felt and looked.

I am not skinny and don’t think it’s in the realm of possibility for me to ever wear a bikini 🙂 but I weigh what I did in high school and my clothes fit. Yay! I am no longer addicted to sugar (to God be the glory) and I know what to eat to feel good and not gain weight.

I have shared this with people in the past and many of them have found freedom, too, so I will briefly share this with you! I just laughed at loud that I wrote “briefly”. Yeah, I’m not good at briefly.

When to Eat: Every 3 hours, no in-betweens

What to Eat: A protein, such as eggs, beef, chicken, turkey, cheese, milk, yogurt, nuts, seeds, beans. A carb, such as fruits and veggies of all kinds and/or grains such as brown rice, quinoa, corn, oats, or non-wheat tortillas.  These are non or minimally processed whole grains. Bread, buns, bagels, muffins, and most cereals really don’t fall into that category. 🙁

How Much to Eat: One serving of the protein, and one serving of the carb. It is safe to say a serving should fit in your hand. A great thing is that you don’t have to limit fruit and veggies. Nobody ever got fat or unhealthy eating lots of fruits and vegetables for goodness sake! There IS fructose in fruit and that does affect your blood sugar/insulin levels, so if you’re just gonna really go wild on fruit one day, aim for low sugar fruits like any type of berry, but honestly i don’t know anybody that binges on fruits and veggies too often! Best kept secret: frozen berries!

Exercise: Not too much. I think a steady 15 minutes every day of the week is wonderful. This 15 should be intense, like power walking or weight lifting at least 3 days a week with the other 4 days being a nice walk, yoga, or an aerobic video or class. It really doesn’t matter that much what you do as long as you are intense for 15 minutes, at least 6 days a week. Currently, I’m doing 15 minutes of something (one of the things I mentioned) plus a 5 to 10 minute walk with my dog most days of the week. This added bit has helped me break through a plateau.

Caveats: There’s no room for fake food in this plan, and there’s no room for a weekly “off day”. On special occasions, I eat what I want but if I ate what I wanted as much as I wanted every Friday, for example, I would never have gotten healthy. I have learned the hard way over many years that consistency is the most valuable aspect of this! Also, there’s no room for wheat. Do your body a favor and stop consuming it! Lastly, there’s no room for sugar. I have written blogs and will write more blogs about how bad sugar is for us.  I personally believe ANY type of sugar is harmful and not doing us any favors, and this means honey, maple syrup, evaporated cane sugar, but that may be because when I used to eat it, I didn’t eat it in small amounts. Any way, our bodies need every bite to be nutrient dense, and these 3 things bolded are NOT.

There are so many great foods that will benefit our bodies. I have seen people quit this type of plan because they said they couldn’t afford it. Sorry, not possible. Healthy food isn’t cheap, but when you take out the junk and eat the correct quantities of real food, anyone can do it. I’ll show you my budget! If I can do it, you can, even if that means you eat beans and rice several nights a week! Also, I’ve seen people quit because some of the new foods were too weird and some of the old foods were too tempting, and I have been there. I remember it taking me YEARS to buy coconut oil and quinoa! For some of us, it is just a slow transition, but as long as we’re moving in the right direction, there’s reward at the end!

God bless you and if you have any questions about learning how to eat this way and want some help along the way, I’d love to help!

 

Season coming to a close…

Wow, we have had an AWESOME Sister Bridge season this year!IMG_3195

I can’t wait to count it all up and see how much money we get to send back to these ladies around the world.

This year, we support women in Swaziland through the ministry of Timbali Crafts; women in India through the ministry of Cooperative Outreach of India; and women in Indonesia through the ministry of Beads of Java.

There were about eight women on the Sister Bridge team this year…meaning instead of me doing 25 parties, the items were dispersed among all eight of us and we went out to our own churches, family and friend gatherings, and venues to sell for the ladies. It has been so wonderful to have this team and we will definitely do that again next year if they are interested and willing.

If you are still wanting to shop, we can help you find a place even if it just means me sending you my address! There are still some items left, actually a good variety, so it’s not too late. Remember 100% of the money goes to these women, so it really is a bright light in comparison to Black Friday!!!

Thank you to everyone for your support this third year!

Homeschool Rocks!

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So…I thought I’d take a minute to update about homeschooling!

We started our school year in the beginning of August after a somewhat unplanned LONG summer break!

Yemi (5) cannot contain her excitement about starting school, and thanks to the beans we glue down every day of school during math, I know that we have done 44 days of school so far! I am thoroughly impressed with this child and her first 44 days of school! I have to brag on her for a moment…She finished the Kindergarten Hooked On Phonics reading program already; we started that (somewhat off and on) last semester and once we began to do it on a more regular basis, it really clicked for her! Now, she is in the 1st Grade HOP reading program and is doing great. I often hear her in her room now reading Dick & Jane, and Dr. Suess!

She also began doing spelling tests 8 weeks ago, and loves to ask us to quiz her when she’s riding in the backseat. For writing lessons, she practices one main letter and number per week. For math, she has already reached all of the Kindergarten learning goals–she is counting by 5s, 2s, and 10s to 1oo, and all kinds of other amazing feats 🙂 !

Selah (8) is also having an awesome year! She is such a joy to teach and  such a bright light. We have wonderful discussions and prayer times most days, and she is growing in many ways. This year our curriculum is called Exploring Countries and Cultures, so we are learning so much about the world and missions. She has already moved on to 4th grade Math, and when it comes to reading, she is reading on a high school level. Honestly, it is terribly hard to find books that are appropriate for her! She has read many book series, like Anne of Green Gables, Little House, Magic Treehouse, Babysitters Club, Anna Hibiscus, Cul-de-Sac Kids…and we are looking for more ideas. I really don’t want her to always be reading something that is worldly. I think it’s fine to watch movies and read books, but if you do that for hours each day, it certainly has an effect on you, so I want to give her good stuff to put in her mind.

We are involved in a co-op called Enrichment, and in the picture above Selah is doing show and tell. She is showing her class of other homeschool kids all of her photo albums and explaining places she’s been and important people in her life. She is not afraid to get up in front of people and is a good speaker. This summer she picked up the guitar and songwriting as well! Can’t wait to see what God has in store for this girl!

I am blessed homeschooling mama! Yes, I could talk about the difficult moments (want to throw that in there just so you know I have them) but that’s for another day. Today, I just wanted to share this portion of my life with you a little bit. 🙂

Beloved: Our New Worship EP!

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Hi Friends!

It is so much fun to get to announce this week that my dear friend, Joanna Black, and I have our new EP in hand. It wasn’t that long ago that we were hanging out in the basement with the piano and cello, singing these new songs for the first time…and now we get to share them with you! YAY!

There’s always so much to do when a new CD comes out and I have only done half of it, but I hope you will find the songs online or come and get a CD from either of us and enjoy! I will soon be posting on my Lyrics page all of the words and chords for the new 6 songs on Beloved, and getting the CD available on Amazon and Lord-willing, Pandora. Also, the songs should be available for download soon on iTunes, and for listening on Spotify and iTunes radio. In the meantime, a great way to purchase the CD or individual songs is to go to http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/lyndsaytaylorandjoannabl You can also find my other CDs on cdbaby.com if you type my name in the search engine. As artists, besides buying a CD in person from us, the most financially beneficial site I sell from is cdbaby.com. (Sometimes people ask me that, so there you go!)

We plan to have our CD release party and concert as well as sell Sister Bridge gifts and Mountain Maid jewelry from Haiti on November 15th, 7 pm, at the Nexus Building in Elizabethtown. You can contact me personally if you need more info or want a CD before then! Thank you for your support! I feel really blessed to get to be a singer songwriter, putting out albums regularly, even if it is to small audiences. I am grateful, grateful, grateful to do what I love and have a way to share it!

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Price List 2013

 

Timbali Crafts 

 

(Most items are individually priced & all items will not be available at all parties)

 

Coin Purse $6     Wristlet $7    Kindle Cover $10

 

Apron $20    Table Runner $25

 

Set of 6 Placemats $20      Pillow Cover $10

 

Kid’s Sling $15     Ornament $5     Headband $6

 

Travel Bag $18     Diaper Bag $35

 

Shoulder Bag $25      Market Bag $15

 

Tote Bag $20     Sling Bag $22

 

 

 

Beads of Java

 

All Items Are Individually Priced, and range between $5 and $20

 

 

 

Cooperative Outreach of India

 

Box of Cards $6