Exciting News!

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Just a quick little update…(Soon I hope to blog about the songs on Beloved and get the lyrics and chords up as well, but today, just a quick word!)

Beloved, the new worship duet EP by Joanna Black and myself, is now available for download on iTunes! Yippee! If you read this and have time, it would be amazing if you could write a little review on iTunes and/or CDBaby for this project. It would genuinely help us a lot!

And second bit of news…We were accepted onto Pandora! Praising the Lord for this, and I’m so thankful for the support of people who “liked” our music from the past so that this was possible. In about 3 months, Beloved songs will be available for listening on Pandora stations. If you haven’t made and cultivated a sweet Lyndsay Taylor channel, I hope you will!

Thanks so much, friends!

Thankful For This…

God is deeply working on my character.

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I told someone today I felt like clay, if clay had nerve endings.

How that clay must hurt if someone keeps pulling and smashing…otherwise known as molding…it!

Ouch.

That’s how I feel.

I feel completely UNDEAD. The nerve endings of this clay are tingling wildly! This sacrifice of my life on the altar has gotten all kinds of alive and opinionated and overdramatic. Sheesh.

So, really to no glory of my own because it isn’t directly by choice, I get to learn to die to self again. Each opportunity of things not going my way has been showing me that I have the chance, again and again, to lay down, to go low, to relinquish my demands, to die.

And this is what  I am thankful for this Thanksgiving. That the Lord never gives up on us. That He doesn’t care if we have to learn something over and over again in our lifetime. That He will send opportunities in our lives to refine us, to draw us closer to Him, to make us more like His Son…all of which are the very reason we’re alive! I forget! I don’t choose the paths that will bring these miracles about, but He does, and it is truly a gift to have these chances to be transformed and reduced, ah, reduced.

“Oh the ruins that I am are a gift You gave to me…”

Learning How To Eat…(just in time for the holidays, sorry!)

This week I was thinking of what I was thankful for, and I know this is going to sound weird, but I am really thankful that I have learned how to eat! I thought back to different seasons of my life and how miserable I was, exercising 40 minutes a day, eating what I thought was good for me, and yet hating how I felt and looked.

I am not skinny and don’t think it’s in the realm of possibility for me to ever wear a bikini 🙂 but I weigh what I did in high school and my clothes fit. Yay! I am no longer addicted to sugar (to God be the glory) and I know what to eat to feel good and not gain weight.

I have shared this with people in the past and many of them have found freedom, too, so I will briefly share this with you! I just laughed at loud that I wrote “briefly”. Yeah, I’m not good at briefly.

When to Eat: Every 3 hours, no in-betweens

What to Eat: A protein, such as eggs, beef, chicken, turkey, cheese, milk, yogurt, nuts, seeds, beans. A carb, such as fruits and veggies of all kinds and/or grains such as brown rice, quinoa, corn, oats, or non-wheat tortillas.  These are non or minimally processed whole grains. Bread, buns, bagels, muffins, and most cereals really don’t fall into that category. 🙁

How Much to Eat: One serving of the protein, and one serving of the carb. It is safe to say a serving should fit in your hand. A great thing is that you don’t have to limit fruit and veggies. Nobody ever got fat or unhealthy eating lots of fruits and vegetables for goodness sake! There IS fructose in fruit and that does affect your blood sugar/insulin levels, so if you’re just gonna really go wild on fruit one day, aim for low sugar fruits like any type of berry, but honestly i don’t know anybody that binges on fruits and veggies too often! Best kept secret: frozen berries!

Exercise: Not too much. I think a steady 15 minutes every day of the week is wonderful. This 15 should be intense, like power walking or weight lifting at least 3 days a week with the other 4 days being a nice walk, yoga, or an aerobic video or class. It really doesn’t matter that much what you do as long as you are intense for 15 minutes, at least 6 days a week. Currently, I’m doing 15 minutes of something (one of the things I mentioned) plus a 5 to 10 minute walk with my dog most days of the week. This added bit has helped me break through a plateau.

Caveats: There’s no room for fake food in this plan, and there’s no room for a weekly “off day”. On special occasions, I eat what I want but if I ate what I wanted as much as I wanted every Friday, for example, I would never have gotten healthy. I have learned the hard way over many years that consistency is the most valuable aspect of this! Also, there’s no room for wheat. Do your body a favor and stop consuming it! Lastly, there’s no room for sugar. I have written blogs and will write more blogs about how bad sugar is for us.  I personally believe ANY type of sugar is harmful and not doing us any favors, and this means honey, maple syrup, evaporated cane sugar, but that may be because when I used to eat it, I didn’t eat it in small amounts. Any way, our bodies need every bite to be nutrient dense, and these 3 things bolded are NOT.

There are so many great foods that will benefit our bodies. I have seen people quit this type of plan because they said they couldn’t afford it. Sorry, not possible. Healthy food isn’t cheap, but when you take out the junk and eat the correct quantities of real food, anyone can do it. I’ll show you my budget! If I can do it, you can, even if that means you eat beans and rice several nights a week! Also, I’ve seen people quit because some of the new foods were too weird and some of the old foods were too tempting, and I have been there. I remember it taking me YEARS to buy coconut oil and quinoa! For some of us, it is just a slow transition, but as long as we’re moving in the right direction, there’s reward at the end!

God bless you and if you have any questions about learning how to eat this way and want some help along the way, I’d love to help!

 

Season coming to a close…

Wow, we have had an AWESOME Sister Bridge season this year!IMG_3195

I can’t wait to count it all up and see how much money we get to send back to these ladies around the world.

This year, we support women in Swaziland through the ministry of Timbali Crafts; women in India through the ministry of Cooperative Outreach of India; and women in Indonesia through the ministry of Beads of Java.

There were about eight women on the Sister Bridge team this year…meaning instead of me doing 25 parties, the items were dispersed among all eight of us and we went out to our own churches, family and friend gatherings, and venues to sell for the ladies. It has been so wonderful to have this team and we will definitely do that again next year if they are interested and willing.

If you are still wanting to shop, we can help you find a place even if it just means me sending you my address! There are still some items left, actually a good variety, so it’s not too late. Remember 100% of the money goes to these women, so it really is a bright light in comparison to Black Friday!!!

Thank you to everyone for your support this third year!

Homeschool Rocks!

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So…I thought I’d take a minute to update about homeschooling!

We started our school year in the beginning of August after a somewhat unplanned LONG summer break!

Yemi (5) cannot contain her excitement about starting school, and thanks to the beans we glue down every day of school during math, I know that we have done 44 days of school so far! I am thoroughly impressed with this child and her first 44 days of school! I have to brag on her for a moment…She finished the Kindergarten Hooked On Phonics reading program already; we started that (somewhat off and on) last semester and once we began to do it on a more regular basis, it really clicked for her! Now, she is in the 1st Grade HOP reading program and is doing great. I often hear her in her room now reading Dick & Jane, and Dr. Suess!

She also began doing spelling tests 8 weeks ago, and loves to ask us to quiz her when she’s riding in the backseat. For writing lessons, she practices one main letter and number per week. For math, she has already reached all of the Kindergarten learning goals–she is counting by 5s, 2s, and 10s to 1oo, and all kinds of other amazing feats 🙂 !

Selah (8) is also having an awesome year! She is such a joy to teach and  such a bright light. We have wonderful discussions and prayer times most days, and she is growing in many ways. This year our curriculum is called Exploring Countries and Cultures, so we are learning so much about the world and missions. She has already moved on to 4th grade Math, and when it comes to reading, she is reading on a high school level. Honestly, it is terribly hard to find books that are appropriate for her! She has read many book series, like Anne of Green Gables, Little House, Magic Treehouse, Babysitters Club, Anna Hibiscus, Cul-de-Sac Kids…and we are looking for more ideas. I really don’t want her to always be reading something that is worldly. I think it’s fine to watch movies and read books, but if you do that for hours each day, it certainly has an effect on you, so I want to give her good stuff to put in her mind.

We are involved in a co-op called Enrichment, and in the picture above Selah is doing show and tell. She is showing her class of other homeschool kids all of her photo albums and explaining places she’s been and important people in her life. She is not afraid to get up in front of people and is a good speaker. This summer she picked up the guitar and songwriting as well! Can’t wait to see what God has in store for this girl!

I am blessed homeschooling mama! Yes, I could talk about the difficult moments (want to throw that in there just so you know I have them) but that’s for another day. Today, I just wanted to share this portion of my life with you a little bit. 🙂

Truth #2: It’s Worth It

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One of the greatest lies that keeps us down is:

“It doesn’t matter what you do, you probably won’t see any change anyway…so just live how you want.”

Well, I am here to say that this is not true! If the changes we make are significant enough, we will see a result! Sometimes the result is just knowing that you could do it, that you could do whatever you set your mind to. Sometimes the result is total freedom from a pit you used to dwell in! And sometimes the result is a change physically that everyone can see. Either way, when we don’t give in to this lie and we persevere, we emerge transformed.

It’s worth it.

Personally, my health forced me to make the choice to be wheat and (mostly) sugar free. I now have sweets at certain special occasions and no longer feel the need to abstain 100% of the time. But most of the year I was sugar free with no exceptions, and there were so many times I thought, “I still have fatigue…My body doesn’t look better…I still have trouble sleeping…I don’t know if I’m going to see results or not, I just wanna say forget it!” Still to this day, after 10 months and losing 20 pounds, I do still struggle with some (but not ALL) of the physical problems I had when I started. So, for me, there have been some physical results and rewards for sure, but the real reward, the real harvest I have reaped from the seeds I have sown (BY GOD’s GRACE) are that my natural habits have changed!

It is no longer the norm when I feel tired or upset to turn to sweets. Is the thought or the temptation there each and every time I feel down, to eat Oreos or ice cream? YES. But it’s like that was the old me, and I feel it- almost tangibly- the correlation between a frustrated, confused, even more tired, sick Lyndsay and the Lyndsay who grabbed cookies and simple sugars whenever she felt low. That was a dark, deep pit! Sugar wasn’t the only bad component of that pit but it almost symbolizes it for me! God has taught me how to rise above and say HECK NO to the steps leading down to that place.

There is a spiritual principle that is undeniably true: We reap what we sow. If we sow self control in those hard moments, if we sow lifestyle changes in the day in day out, if we sow prayer, truth, scripture, hope…we WILL reap a harvest! And that harvest could bless a lot of people.

Whatever you need to do for your health, do it, keeping in mind that your life affects more than just you. I want to live a self controlled life that has appetites for all things under the leadership of Jesus Christ in order to show my daughters that I can’t just live however I feel in the moment. If nothing else, if no other benefit comes from a healthy relationship with food (meaning we eat it for fuel and not to meet an emotional need), but exemplifying this to my children, it’s worth it.

It’s worth it!

 

Beloved: Our New Worship EP!

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Hi Friends!

It is so much fun to get to announce this week that my dear friend, Joanna Black, and I have our new EP in hand. It wasn’t that long ago that we were hanging out in the basement with the piano and cello, singing these new songs for the first time…and now we get to share them with you! YAY!

There’s always so much to do when a new CD comes out and I have only done half of it, but I hope you will find the songs online or come and get a CD from either of us and enjoy! I will soon be posting on my Lyrics page all of the words and chords for the new 6 songs on Beloved, and getting the CD available on Amazon and Lord-willing, Pandora. Also, the songs should be available for download soon on iTunes, and for listening on Spotify and iTunes radio. In the meantime, a great way to purchase the CD or individual songs is to go to http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/lyndsaytaylorandjoannabl You can also find my other CDs on cdbaby.com if you type my name in the search engine. As artists, besides buying a CD in person from us, the most financially beneficial site I sell from is cdbaby.com. (Sometimes people ask me that, so there you go!)

We plan to have our CD release party and concert as well as sell Sister Bridge gifts and Mountain Maid jewelry from Haiti on November 15th, 7 pm, at the Nexus Building in Elizabethtown. You can contact me personally if you need more info or want a CD before then! Thank you for your support! I feel really blessed to get to be a singer songwriter, putting out albums regularly, even if it is to small audiences. I am grateful, grateful, grateful to do what I love and have a way to share it!

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Price List 2013

 

Timbali Crafts 

 

(Most items are individually priced & all items will not be available at all parties)

 

Coin Purse $6     Wristlet $7    Kindle Cover $10

 

Apron $20    Table Runner $25

 

Set of 6 Placemats $20      Pillow Cover $10

 

Kid’s Sling $15     Ornament $5     Headband $6

 

Travel Bag $18     Diaper Bag $35

 

Shoulder Bag $25      Market Bag $15

 

Tote Bag $20     Sling Bag $22

 

 

 

Beads of Java

 

All Items Are Individually Priced, and range between $5 and $20

 

 

 

Cooperative Outreach of India

 

Box of Cards $6

 

 

 

Truth #1

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Well, first, I’ll start with the lie…that’s how it usually begins for me, anyway.

We’re trucking along, doing our thing, and a lie begins. Someone says it, a tv show alludes to it, whatever. But there it is. And subconsciously, we begin to think we’re abnormal or missing out if we ourselves don’t go along with that suggestion. And in this case, since this is a blog about nutrition and even more so about the freedom to be well, I’m talking about lies that take us ever so subtly off the good path of healthy eating and exercise that we were walking.

So Lie #1, have you ever let this one get to you? Is this familiar at all? It sure is to me.

“You’re not under the law. God wouldn’t have you under strict rules about eating, that’s ridiculous.”

Don’t you love it when a lie has just enough truth in it to trip you up?

So here’s Truth #1 to counteract that lie:

“God loves us enough to give us boundary lines, yes, restrictions, yes, rules, and sure, call it law if you want. But just like laws keep us safe when we obey them, having clear cut boundaries about eating unhealthy foods or over eating or something even more specific are ultimately for our reward and freedom. God is a good parent. He disciplines those He loves. He cares about us: soul, mind, and body.”

This is a hard path. I want to do what I want, eat what I want, live willy-nilly. But you know what? I hate the results of that. There are too many reality moments, too many mornings-after, and those hurt. Here’s the deal: We can’t have it both ways. We will reap what we sow, period. We can’t have the freedom to be well, the rewards of wise eating, without submitting to the boundaries long-term.

Everyone has different boundaries, and you don’t need me or anyone telling you what yours ought to be. But we can come together on this truth, wherever you are in your journey to wellness. If the doctor, or your own research, or the Lord as your Wonderful Counselor has shared with you a better way for a better life, it will include boundaries and it will not feel fair. There may be some kicking and screaming and even some disobedience. We’re children, we’re sheep, He knows. But the sooner we get on board, the better, for us.

So don’t let anyone tell you that you’re missing out on fun or that “it couldn’t be God telling you what to eat or not eat” when you are sticking to a commitment you have chosen to make…or at least, don’t let it get to you! Let the Lord bless you with these Fatherly boundaries He cared enough to guide you to make and when the going gets rough, be ready to combat this lie with TRUTH!

God is crazy in love with us, regardless of what choices we make. (Thank You, JESUS!!) But He often sees our suffering, that we have brought upon ourselves, and says, “If you want to be free, here’s how to do it.” We so quickly forget that this is how the boundaries began in the first place…they were birthed out of necessity, His intimate knowledge of our personal struggles, and out of His great love for us.

 

 

Beauty from Ashes!

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There are some gorgeous things showing up in big boxes on my front step! That can only mean one thing…It is almost Sister Bridge time!

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I’m so excited that I get to do this! We are partnering for the 3rd year with Timbali Crafts, Cooperative Outreach of India, and Beads of Java, selling their handmade crafts for the wages of women in third world countries.

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All year the ladies have worked and as they have worked, they have gotten to hang out with missionaries and other believerswho care about them. They’ve heard the Gospel, and they’ve had a good, safe, job. We get to partner in their freedom and their joy just by helping them sell their handiwork.

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Like a quilt, they take pieces of material and magazine paper and bits of this and that and create something new, valuable, cherished…Just like God redeeming our scraps and seeing us as a new creation.

 

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